This week has been powerful for me as a professional. I was invited by a friend and business colleague to come to a BNI event in Reno, International Networking Week Celebration.
Now I have often gone to networking events and could not wait to get out of the place, usually hiding near the food line or in a back table until it was ok to leave the event. However this event was a little different for me. Same type of set up as before but I had given myself a little pep talk, regarding over coming fears and being a positive figure in the room. It worked. I made over 100 contacts and was able to communicate with fellow business leaders and discuss how I could help their business and them mine.
I had the pleasure of listening to three great speakers: O.C. Gillam (stand up Comic), Molly Geil, PHD. (Arbonne), and Jordan Adler (self-made millionaire, author of ‘Beach Money” and professional networker) The topic’s these speakers spoke on centered on Goals and developing teams that can help you achieve.
Goals and Teams – you know after one leaves competitive sports in their lives, I wonder how often we actually think of our teams when developing our goals? Do you know what I mean? When I was young I would set goals to achieve but they were always in the scope of team achievement, I wanted to lead the league in Rebounding so that our team could be a dominate defensive team. etc…
However in my professional life I struggle to think of Goals I have created that involve the help and talents of my team. I have set goals, I have been blessed to even set goals for companies, however I am trying to think if I ever considered the team when developing the goal?
What is my point and why do you care? We are now into our second month of 2011. How are your goals going? When you set them did you have a team around you ready to help you make them? Did you consider if you needed a new team in order to help you reach that goal? I just wanted to put that thought out there today, maybe as much for myself as for you, I may need to reevaluate my goals and the team of people who I now work with in order to find success in the near future.
Jordan Adler, spoke of future (Goal/Dream) journaling for his goals. This was a practice that I learned way back in high school and I know it works. The key is to write your goals in a present tense, to write honest goals that strike the core of who and what you want to be. Take this challenge and see what happens for you in the next year.
1) Find some quite time and relax.
2) Start writing a story about your life one year from today. ( Maybe you want to right it two or three years away, does not matter)
3) After finishing this story, save it and read it to your self every day for one month.
4) Find a team that will help you start to accomplish pieces of your dreams.
5) go to work.
I believe 98% of the world would never do this. The other 2% are living that life that everyone else aspires to.
Good luck and join me on this Challenge.
- International Networking Week Around the Corner (pamil-visions.net)